Sunday, February 7, 2010

The Sex Life of the Foot and Shoe (Hardcover) at amazon - a great shoe fetish boot fetish retifism book.

The Sex Life of the Foot and Shoe (Hardcover) at amazon - a great shoe fetish boot fetish retifism book.

~ William A. Rossi

(Author)


This incredible book by William Rossi is back – at least for now!!! If you have not read it it is a must --- when you are done I then suggest “OUT OF THE CLOSET” A shoe fetish book with research, studies, commentary, and cases.


I read this book many, many years ago and have always wanted to obtain my own copy, and to read it again. I found this book to be UTTERLY FASCINATING...., interesting and a good giggle in places. The author clearly knows his subject, and one learns, for instance, the mystery behind Cinderella's glass slipper. It is NOT only a book for people with foot fetishes. It's a great read and I would recommend it to anyone. I can assure you that after reading this book, you will start noticing the shoes people wear... as certain types of people wear certain types of shoes.... SO TRUE! I just LOVE men in BOOTS!! Read all about it for yourselves!!!! (It will probably make you rush out and buy "appropriate" shoes!!!


I read this book a few years ago as well when I was doing research as a PsyD student. My thesis and research included this fetish and I found this book very useful, and singificant up to date from the older material available such as Psycho-Sexualis by Krafft and Ebbing. It was right on target and fun to read. The life of a true shoe fetishist is very intersting and very solo, but the life of shoe play incorporated into a sex life can be incredible with the right shoes. Although I never became a shoes only fetishist the experiments with women and their shoes turned out to be erotic and lots of fun. I only wish there was a sequal to this book with more current and explicit details for couples. My partner and I discovered so much more that can be done in play the book became a great starting point. Another discovery that we made was that although women do not share the same fetish as men they can, if open to experiment, share aspects of the fetish differently, but with just as much excitement and tension as men. As I have always felt, some designers of high fashion women's footwear may have utility in mind, (boring) but some designers "get it" and have a lot more in mind than utility when they design a woman's shoe or boot it is clearly to create sexual excitement.


This most delightful book is not only erotic and impossible to put down but is extremely well documented. The author cites over 100 sources to support his points. Many historical references to implications of various styles are nicely illustrated with drawings and photographs. It is impossible to refrain from self-analysis and sizing up the personalities of those around you based on the psychosexual themes conveyed through dressing the foot. The book is a comprehensive look at the historical and contemporary implications of the role feet and shoes play in flirtation and mating.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

SHOE FETSH - SHOE SEX; CASE NUMBER 12 Weird Sex StonedI

SHOE FETISH - SHOE SEX; CASE NUMBER 12 Weird Sex Stoned

This is a very unusual article that came to me titled Weird Sex Stoned from an online shoe fetishist. It allows us to consider and look at the shoe from the perspective of a person using a mild drug like marijuana once again. This, after reading it, appears to be a fairly experienced shoe fetishist who is not afraid to share his perspective with the world. It comes across as fairly realistic and I would say it is probably a very accurate account of how this fetishists mind works and locks in on the sexuality of the shoes around him. It is quite clear, that the shoe fetishists mind works very much like the attraction of heterosexual or homosexual sexuality. The person is attracted, focuses their attention, does a kind of mating ritual getting closer to the pair of choice, than gets aroused and begins and then consummates his affair with great gusto and passion.

Here is a story as it was sent to me over the internet by that shoe fetishist I had communicated with on the ASFF shoe fetish site. The site used to be run by George Gerez. He did not write this case. Quite frankly the person who wrote this did not leave his name but did leave their e-mail address: insides...@aol.com.

I am sitting here in my T-shirt and shorts. I was doing a few odds and ends, and I might add I was just a bit stoned. So I decided to go into our bedroom to consider what needed to be done next. I walked into our closet and it was a mess so I decided to clan it up a bit. I looked at her side finding it lined with very modern and fashionable clothing and on the floor were stacks of her high quality leather shoes and boots all strewn about. So I decided to straighten them up. We had just been together a short time and I hadn’t done this yet. As I began to straighten up a couple of pairs caught my attention.

Perhaps what surprised me was, this is the first time I had been near her shoes a bit stoned, I was finding that these shoes were clearly just as hot, erotic, and sexy off of her as on her and perhaps being stoned just took on a more narrow heightened focus. If you ever smoked marijuana you already know what I mean, if you have not you probably won’t understand. My focus was becoming very interesting. I decide to pick up a couple of the more erotic pairs and sat there looking at them.

I've got to get back to my other tasks. I have some things I need to do. So, I decided to place the shoes and boots right next to me and to the side so that I can glance at them and look at the fashion lines of the shoes while I worked to organize the closet. I glanced at the floor next to the me and to my surprise she had taken off and left her bright red kidskin stiletto heeled knee high zippered leather boots there. Wow a bonus,,, I picked them up and placed them next to me as well.

As I sat there I was looking through the closet and found some of the comments from the alt.sex.fetish.feet newsgroup I had printed out. I noticed a few comments in some threads about others being excited by women’s feet and shoes. I already had a flaming shoe fetish but being newly together I left it on the side for a while. But now, here alone? So I glanced over at the shoes and imagined her walking toward me in them and at that point, and not to my surprise, my member started to slowly pulse and enlarge.

I wasn't sure what would happen next but I knew that I had was going to write and document what I felt and share my experience with other who share my fetish.

Being a bit stoned and certainly a bit horny I decided, what the heck no one is home and I was curious, I'll try to wear a pair of these shoes. I put on a pair of her very thin hose. They were certainly a bit tight she is smaller than I am. Then I tried on the shoes. They were tight, but I forced myself in, they barely fit. There they were on my feet a pair of very expensive $300 pair of Giorgio Armani 3" inch high heeled black kidskin leather "T" straps in size 10 1/2. Not the heavy kind but a very gentle and graceful thin "T" with very soft leather. I expect you might see these high heels on a Vogue model. They felt good on and looking at them in the mirror across the room made me a bit more excited. They were so tight I could clearly see the outline of my toes in the black leather of the shoe.

At that point I was thinking that probably every fetishist should have a mirror so they can look into it if they ever decide to try things on. My toes showed through the leather even a bit more than hers would because of the pressure and my larger foot size. I could see the curve of my arch in the 3" high heel. They were certainly a hot pair of shoes. Looking at the shoes in the mirror I could imagine her wearing them and moving in them across the room.

But wait a minute, as I glanced back I had her pair of red boots next to me as well. For a moment, being stoned, I forgot about the T straps. When I took a close look at these shoes the interesting thing about these "red boots" is that the pointed toe area is a bit longer than usual for a "boot". As I looked inside the boot it was lined with soft kidskin leather as I glanced at the extended toe area my mind wandered in a kind of kinky fantasy deep down into the shoe. Being stoned sometimes has its advantages, especially with a shoe fetish. After a bit of focusing down into the depths of her boot. I realized that I could probably slide my hand down along the inner arch and into the flesh colored toe area inside of the shoe. So I did, it felt smooth and silky to my hand I could feel the toe bumps worn inside the boot. My member was getting harder and pushing against my pants and it pushed out the hole in my shorts. So I naturally just moved the booted hand to my penis and pushed it down and back in as us guys sometimes do when we have an unexpected rising we don’t quite want. The soft leather made contact with my penis and it felt like electricity and I gently stroked it with my booted hand and it easily grew another inch.

As I glanced at the toe of the boot and the well worn lines made in the leather from her foot I continued to throb and get harder. I was almost driven by passion to slide them off of my hand and take a closer look at the wear lines in the shoe.

Instead I decide to delay as I moved my feet in the T straps. My focus shifted again, I could feel my toes move inside of the shoe and it felt wonderful against the leather surface of the shoe. Perhaps my foot pulsing in the leather was a premonition of things to come.

I tried to keep focused on cleaning the closet but being a bit stoned the focus shifted to the curves in the very stylish black leather shoe that I also had next to me once again caught my attention. This pair has a nice two inch chunky heel and a great opening down into the toe area. On the outside of this shapely and stylish mule, kind of a clog but not quite as large looking as a standard clog. This clog had the softest of wear lines in the leather that attracted my attention. I am interrupted by an urge to get closer to the shoe as I smell the aroma of the leather mixed with her feet. I decide to stop cleaning for just a moment as the aroma of her feet mixed with leather acts as a pheromone and excites me even more. I slid the shoe closer to my face as the urge to kiss the leather took me over. First I am attracted to the outside of the shoe and then with more excitement toward the opening of the shoe as I see the outline of her foot impressed into the worn leather lining.

I force myself to stop as I first felt and then glanced at the red fashion boot that I still had my hand and arm slid into. For a moment as my hand moved I fantasized her foot moving in the boot over the toe bumps and my attention shifted once again.

I stopped again as I imagine her sliding her foot gently into and then out of the one of those very sexy high heeled red leather fashion boots that she loved to wear. I fantasized her painted red toes as she slid her foot back into the boot and then I felt her command me to bring the boot to my lips and kiss one of the shoes first gently and then she said I know you love it kiss it more passionately.

I couldn't resist as I slowly removed the red boot from my arm and began to kiss it gently and then more passionately. I was becoming so aroused that I found myself deep kissing the toe of the shoe and sucking it into my mouth. I imagined her foot still inside the soft warm erotic boot as I realize that I am now making love to a shoe. I had imagined that I had just slid it off of her foot.

I realized that she had worn them yesterday. I didn't even care, it was so wonderful that I couldn't, no I didn't want to stop.

At that point my attention shifted as I began to kiss the flesh tone inner lining of the red zippered thigh high boot.

The urge and my erection was so strong I was now forced to lower my underwear to lighten the pressure of the erection tight against the cloth. I then gently placed a drop of gel on the tip of my member and then slid the soft red leather boot gently over my throbbing penis inserting my member deep down the flesh toned lining into the erotic inside of the sensational soft leather shoe. I could feel the warmth of the boot that I just slid it off. Combined with the soft leather walls surrounding my penis. Oh my goodness it felt so good I was beyond excited. The walls of the creased leather shaped by her foot caressed my penis in a way that it almost felt like I was inside of her.

As my penis moved gently over the toe bumps inside of her boot it felt like electricity. This felt so much better than I expected, all so soft all so surrounding as the sides of the red boot gently caressing my erect member. I began to quickly move the boot up and down over my penis thrusting it deeper into the inner sole. I could see the outline of my penis move inside the shoe touching the inside of the toe bumps worn into the leather.

I then saw the other soft boot nearby. I gently reached for it and began to kiss the other shoe. I then open the inside of her boot moving my face gently into the shoe as I kiss and fondle it my penis continues to throb in and out of your boot in the place of her foot.

The fantasy is so kinky and just so much fun. Being high my passion focuses on the boot and I have all but forgotten about your feet ever being inside. I am surprised to discover that with all of my passion I find I am making love to these very well worn erotic red high heeled zippered kid skin red leather boots. I realize I am simply making it with the boots.

The urge and passion is so strong that I now must lay on the floor. As I try to open the shoe to continue to kiss and smell the inside, I find I am laying on top of the opened boot with my penis penetrating even deeper inside the boot as if I were now on top of a woman having sex with her. With the friction of the carpet holding the opened boot in place I find I no longer need my hands and it's so much easier to move in and out of the toe area of the shoe just as if I were doing a woman.

In this new position, now the fantasy is really beginning to blow me away. Now I realize I am deeply and passionately kissing and making love to both erotic boots on the floor as the odor of the worn leather electrifies my body. It is clear to me that I am excited by the boots alone. The thought of my partner is no where to be found. To my surprise the boot itself was a turn on and I was passionately screwing her right boot as I deeply kissed, fondled, and made love to her left boot.

My body began to pick up speed automatically, as I pump in and out, in and out, in and out and I know that I can no longer hold it. It was getting close as my mind reeled from the excitement.

This is so amazing, why didn't I think of doing this before? God I love this, I love this.

Oh my, being stoned I begin to understand how a shoe could feel even better than the inside of a woman. As I moved move in and out, deeper and deeper into the boot. It was so sensitive I could feel every leather wear line gently caress my member that is now riding deep inside the toe of the boot.

I continued to kiss the erotic toe lines on the outside of the red high heeled boot with such passion as I buried my head back inside of the boot and surrounded my face with the soft leather and the inside smell of the boot.

My body began to shiver and pulse with my first orgasm inside of this wonderful virgin soft leather red boot. It feels so good as I moan with passion as I try to hold back but begin to let go with continuous explosions inside of the tip of the boot. I couldn't stop pulsing, it was the most fantastic and satisfying orgasm I had ever had.

As I calmed down with my penis sensitive I continued to feel the walls of the soft well worn leather boot as the pulses continue. I am so aroused my body becomes tingly with sensations as I continue to move inside of the shoe and kiss the inner sole of the other boot as if I were kissing her.

As the explosion subsides, for a brief moment I consider what I am doing, I couldn’t believe it. I was having sexual intercourse with a very sexy and erotic boot. A place where feet live and walk. As I consider this I keep exploding even more into the depth of her shoe as I consider the erotic curves of the boot. So sensuous, so delicious. It felt so good I didn't care that I was enjoying passionate lust with her shoes.

All to soon, my body eases and I relax. What a great experience that was, all so satisfying. I am once again surprised that it felt so much like the inside of a vagina as the walls of the leather gently caressed and surrounded me as I moved in and out.

In my lifetime I never thought it would be important and wonderful to be part of such a select group of people who have developed a shoe fetish. To know what I know. To feel what I feel can not be gained by those who have never been able to become excited by or do a sensuous and erotic well worn shoe. I knew the secret to being one of the world’s best women's shoe designers. I knew why women were so attracted to buying shoes and never even consciously understood what they were about.

Somewhere down deep, I am certain they really do understand the attraction, the sexuality, the erotic power, and the impact of a well turned designer shoe. In time I learned through penetrating experiences which shoes look and feel great and which ones just look great, and which ones not only look great but feel great as well.

SHOE FETISH -- Do you have a real shoe fetish?

SHOE FETISH -- Do you have a real shoe fetish?


How can you tell if you have a real SHOE FETISH? If you look at the pair of used women's (or men’s, if you prefer) shoes like the well worn Jimmy Choo boots I bought from Darla next to the word shoe fetish above, or the larger picture in the files, and you find them erotic, sexy, and you feel a reaction and perhaps a strong desire need and want them. -- Well consider it possible that you may have a SHOE FETISH!

Whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, TS, or just love lots of sex toys and the many forms of sex play and masturbation and you find all acceptable as much of modern society does today, and now you are able to add to that list the gentle deviations – e.g. -shoe and boot fetish play. Then perhaps, we are for you ( I do concede there are many exceptions in "ALL" societies where the public view is narrow. Many peoples have narrow religious & social public views of their own sexuality. Many cultures allow no public deviation from the simple missionary position, anything else is a violation of their cultural & public codes & policy. I respect and consider their view to be their own, even though I do not concur. In my view it is a personal psychological handicap to be closed minded as we walk through life. What many of those same people practice behind closed doors may be variations to their own cultural codes & policies yet it may also be the simple reality, "humans are sexual". If your sex life doesn’t hurt anyone, if it is not illegal, and you don't force it on anyone clearly it should be just fine with just about everyone what you decide to do in your own private life behind your own closed doors, or what you decide to share in like minded places like this. After all, I am not forcing this WEB page on anyone, and certainly I would never send a copy to those who don't share an open exploratory view of their own sexuality. To get to this note you had to not only search it out as a Newsgroup, you had the opportunbity to review, read, and to get past the disclaimers. I call that clearly informed consent & to open any of these materials as being done with free will and with free choice. )

Monday, January 11, 2010

"SHOE FETISH" --- does not in any way equal ---"SHOE SHOPPING FETISH."

Clearly I am out to try to change the way the public describes a woman's shoe shopping as her having a shoe fetish.


This statement regarding shopping is clearly nonsense and they would not use the term if they actually understood what having a shoe fetish really meant. Although, from my research, I have found evidence that some women may actually have a lesbian tendency and perhaps some form of what we might consider a shoe fetish. However, I suspect most who use the term do not have the real deal and use it improperly.

"SHOE FETISH"

--- does not in any way equal ---

"SHOE SHOPPING FETISH."

In short --- It does mean sexual arousal to shoes and shoe related sexual activities. Are shoe shopping women sexually aroused by their activity? Perhaps? Perhaps not? Or is it an unreported Victoria's Secret type passion that remains in their closet?

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Introduction to Sexual Fetishes; Shoe Fetish & Boot Fetish Anyone?

Introduction to Sexual Fetishes; Shoe Fetish & Boot Fetish Anyone?


From the open WEB – copyright unknown not stated.

A Little Background

A fetish is a profound erotic desire for something; it could be a shoe, a boot, a breast or a material (nylon, leather, etc.). One could also have a fetish for an activity, such as watching, being watched, spanking or being spanked. Whatever the fetish object, the fetishist invests in it great power, sometimes great sexual power, sometimes great religious power, sometimes both.

In the classic sense, the sexual fetishist needs the fetish object - or at least, some kind of fantasy of the fetish object - in order to have sex. Psychologists call this a "paraphilia." The male needs the fetish object to get an erection. For the female, sexual arousal and fetishism exist but are always a little more mysterious and difficult to pinpoint. Let's just say the female fetishist needs the fetish object to enjoy sex, e.g. wearing or enjoying the look, touch and the feel of high heels or stiletto boots before and perhaps during sex encounters.

Fetishism is diagnosable as a psychosexual disorder, but only if the fetish excludes all other aspects of social life or causes significant distress for the person or has detrimental effects on other important areas of their life. Many people enjoy their fetish and choose to embrace their fetish and find ways to incorporate them into their life rather than seek treatment to attempt to be rid of them.

In a review of the files of all cases over a 20-year period which met criteria for non-transvestic fetishes in a teaching hospital, 48 cases were identified, and the objects of their fetishes included clothing (58.3%), footwear and leather (25%), rubber and rubber items (22.9%), body parts (14.6%), and soft materials and fabrics (6.3%). ( No data resource was provided )

Fetish Types

Essentially, there are four types of fetishes:

• Body Part Fetishists worship parts of the human body, like feet, breasts, buns, legs, hair, lips, bellybuttons, fingernails, sperm or female ejaculate. This if course is so much harder to detect because the fetishist may enjoy the body part on a partner and the partner may not be aware of the intense focus. Example; A lot of men and women have an over fascination for breasts. Is it a fetish? I think so.

• Object Fetishists prefer to be intimate mostly with their inanimate fetish objects. Unlike body parts, the objects can arouse them and be used for a sexual event. They may be shoes or boots that are used and well worn by a particular individual but they excite the fetishist even if they are not attached to actual human beings. For some standing in a closet surrounded by shoes and boots of their desire can be enough to arouse them. Although some fetish behavior in the fetishists mind may be considered to replace masturbation in their mind it is not masturbation but an intense sexual encounter. Of course in the extreme some fetishist are not social at all and choose to avoid any contact with partners avoiding the feelings and personalities that could get in the way of the fetishist's intense erotic adoration and enjoyment. Some common fetish objects include high heels, sexy heeled boots, nylon stockings, pantyhose, panties, bras, leather, rubber, latex, fur (real or fake), and even collars and hats.

• Action Fetishists love to make things happen. The voyeurs who fetishize watching are called "action fetishists," as are the exhibitionists who fetishize being watched.

• Finally, there are the Feeling or Conceptual Fetishists. Their feelings tend to be more socially acceptable. At least, they don’t get caught hoarding shoes. But they are potentially just as compulsive. Adrenaline Junkies fetishize danger. Hopeless Romantics fetishize love. Drama Queens fetishize suffering. Terrorists fetishize violence. Fascists fetishize power. Wasn't it Henry Kissinger who said "Power is the greatest aphrodisiac"?

Fetish gratification can be undertaken alone or with a partner, or even in a group situation. However, fetishism has traditionally been associated with a certain degree of furtiveness, and indeed many people with a fetish are very secretive or even repressed, and are afraid of indulging their fetish fantasies or behavior with others. This is one of the major reasons why fetishists habitually undertake their sexual satisfaction by themselves. However, today there are many internet web sites that focus on fetish behavior and as these increase fetish behavior is now in the open and many are finding it much more common an indulgence than thought. Some research has suggested that the population of men that indulge in varieties of interesting, if not fetishistic ways to get aroused, could include very high indeed. Many men, who may or may not be considered fetishists, get excited and aroused seeing a beautiful woman in close fitting designer knee high black leather stiletto high heeled zippered fashion boots made out of the finest and softest Italian leathers in the world.

Fetishists may interact with their fetish object in any number of ways. For example the shoe fetishist may obtain sexual pleasure by wearing them, looking them, smelling, licking, and touching them. However many allow themselves to get lost in romantic rapture and deep kiss and make love to the inner or outer surfaces of one shoe at an intense level similar to the heightened arousal and kissing of a partner during a sexual encounter. Then take the other shoe and may touch themselves but more than likely will use a little sexual lubricant and climb right on top and penetrate inside the second shoe fully culminating and completing a sexual intercourse encounter. Some may be aroused by their partner wearing a shoe or by using it to bring a partner to orgasm, many shoe fetishists collect the item or fetish art or film that features their fetish. Fetishists may fantasize about the object of their desire, dream about it and then make love to or with it.

A Few Examples

Shoe Fetish

A fetish that is almost as common as the foot fetish is that for shoes (usually stilettos or other kinds of high-heels) or for boots. It has been argued that many modern Western women have a fetish for shoes that may or may not have anything to do with sex! However many may have an underlying interest that may fit well with their male shoe fetish counterpart who would support and use their shoe indulgences to mutual advantage.

A woman with a true sexual shoe fetish may also derive intense pleasure from wearing beautiful shoes or collecting them, but they will also involve them in some kind of sexual context.

Many shoe fetishists (and most of them are men) start in their teens by becoming sexually aroused at the sight of female relatives - usually their mother or sisters - wearing sexy, feminine clothing including high heeled shoes. As there is an immensely strong taboo against sexual thoughts or behavior with your family members, the shoe fetishist quickly fixes his attention on the shoes, rather than the woman wearing them.

Male shoe fetishists often have absolutely no need of a female partner to become sexually stimulated. The presence of the shoes are sufficient for arousal and gratification; the sight, taste, smell and shape and feel of a shoe is enough to bring some shoe fetishists to climax, whereas others gain an intense release from rubbing their erect penis against the outside of a shoe, or more often they learn how to penetrate inside the shoe until they achieve orgasm. Some fetishists, that also have partners they are active with claim having sex with a well designed soft leather lined shoe or boot with a little lubricant can be a great alternative if your partner is less active and to them the penetration with the right shoe can feel almost the same as intercourse with a woman. They claim the this is one of the least talked about aspects and except for fetishists one of the incredible secrets of their fetish.

Some men who have a shoe fetish may also have a foot and leg fetish and enjoy having sex with women who wear beautiful shoes, or may at some point after their partner is satisfied engage directly with the shoes, they may fondle, kiss, smell or lick the shoes on her feet gazing admiringly upon them while she masturbates him to ejaculation. Some with an open minded partner may get aroused by the shoes and then their partner may take them off and use the shoes to bring him to climax.

Some men derive their sensual pleasure from wearing women's shoes themselves, and today there are plenty of high quality women's shoes and boots in men's sizes are available to cater for those tastes. Even Jimmy Choo’s knee high black leather zippered three inch heeled Peony boot can be bought in size 43 (womens U.S. +/-12) which could easily fit many men. Stuart Weitzman also makes a size 12. There is also a French boot maker, Jean Gaborit, who makes very nice looking erotic thigh high quality women’s boots in sizes that go far beyond 43.

Foot Fetish

One of the most common fetishes is for the human foot. Foot fetishism (sometimes referred to as Foot Worship) may be expressed by taking the role of either the 'top' or the 'bottom'. In this instance the top is the one whose feet are worshipped, and they may have this type of foot fetish or they may merely be participating in order to please their partner. If they are the partner with the fetish, it may be the act of having their feet attended to that excites them. Alternatively, they may be aroused by feet, and are wildly excited by receiving a 'foot job', the foot fetishist's equivalent to a hand job, where feet are used to stimulate the genitals.

The bottom with a foot fetish gets sexual gratification by 'worshipping' the top's feet, which may take the form of washing, kissing, licking, massaging, smelling, applying oils or lotions, or even performing a full pedicure. Foot worship may also be demanded of bottoms as part of a dominance and submission scene, whether the bottom has a foot fetish or not.

There is a considerable grey area where fetishism and 'ordinary' sexual activity and desire mingle. A man who enjoys the sensation of his girlfriend's "stockinged" foot rubbing on his testicles and penis is not necessarily a foot fetishist - at least not unless he can't achieve orgasm any other way, or feels somehow unsatisfied by orgasms achieved without this stimulus.

Monday, January 4, 2010

Shoe fetish, boot fetish partners --- This is only an issue if you make it one

Shoe fetish, boot fetish partners --- This is only an issue if you make it one



FALSE STATEMENT ABOUT SHOE FETISHES; Someone once said shoe fetishists are always alone? Really, NONSENSE !!! --- – SOME ARE because they are socially lacking. Most of us with any social skills and a sharing brain are not !!! – Not only that speaking for myself generally sexual activity and foreplay can last for hours, women love that !!! Most of us who want to have a lot of fun and let our partners have a lot of fun as well know how to share and provide for a partners needs, first so a real relationship does exist. I have been with my partner with my fetish in the open for what seems to be more than four score and seven years. …. OK, over 30 years. Those who play well together will generally stay together.

Latest Find for my BOOT FETISH - Stuart Weitzman knee highs in size 12 !!!

Latest Find for my BOOT FETISH - Used Stuart Weitzman knee highs in size 12 !!!

What a find!!! What fun !!!

If you share my shoe fetish you already know how wonderful it is to find the perfect pair of boots. --- I just bought a nicely fitting pair of Size 12 Stuart Weitzman Knee high black leather used zippered boots with a 3 inch heel - an incredible find and what incredible fun and they fit perfectly !!!

If you have a shoe fetish and any imagination at all you already know I have been wearing them for hours and just like a little kid I just can’t wait to wear them to bed.


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Thursday, December 31, 2009

SHOE FETISH vs SHOE SHOPPING

Clearly I am out to try to change the way the public describes a woman's shoe shopping as her having a shoe fetish. 


This statement regarding shopping is clearly nonsense and they would not use the term if they actually understood what having a shoe fetish really meant. Although, from my research, I have found evidence that some women may actually have a lesbian tendency and perhaps some form of what we might consider a  shoe fetish. However, I suspect most who use the term do not have the real deal and use it improperly.

"SHOE FETISH"

--- does not in any way equal ---

"SHOE SHOPPING FETISH." 

In short --- It does mean sexual arousal to shoes and shoe related sexual activities.  Are shoe shopping women sexually aroused by their activity?  Perhaps?  Perhaps not?  Or is it an unreported Victoria's Secret type passion that remains in their closet? 

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Shoe Fetish a common fetish, some experts explain

Shoe Fetish


Shoes are a common fetish, some experts explain

Although commonly tagged as a psychological preference, if safe, fetishism can be an enjoyable experience for those engaging in the practice, ISU experts say.


Fetishism is a type of psycho-sexual preference where individuals have intense fantasies that involve intense sexual urges or sexual fantasies through living, non-living objects, and a combination of the two said X, associate professor of psychology.

X, who teaches Psychology, said fetishism is classified under the category of paraphilia, which he described as "an attraction to something that's different."

"To be classified as having a fetish, one must have urges for a six-month period and have an exclusive focus on the means of intense sexual behavior," X said. "The urges or behavior must cause some changes to the person's daily life."

X said the most common types of fetishes are for women’s feet, shoes, and boots.

Y, a graduate student in human studies and family development, said there are a number of ways one possessing a fetish can become aroused by their preferred object. "If someone has a shoe fetish, they may become aroused by the touch of the shoe, how the shoe feels on them, or have a man or a woman wear the shoe, or for example, place their member on or inside of the shoe" . "If someone has a foot fetish, they may look at [the foot] or be touched [by the foot] while masturbating."

X said fetishism is most commonly practiced by males.

"Males are much more likely to engage in fetishism," X said. "It doesn't mean it can't occur in females though and it seems that it does." Those who possess fetishes will usually keep their activities private from others so getting a view of the extent of this fetish to males and females is difficult at best to determine. "People who practice fetishism are not one to advertise that they have fetishes," he said.

One type of fetishism commonly and publicly practiced is transvestism, or cross-dressing, X said. "This is usually not seen as harmful or destructive".

Some types of fetishes can be seen as problematic. "Persons with extreme focus on fetishism will often perpetrate criminal acts to get a hold of the desired objects," he said. "[For example,] they will often resort to burglary or robbery to procure shoes or boots, and in some instances, will pursue the boots on the woman." These are generally the anti social exception rather than the typical fetishist behavior and these are what become public and distort fetish behavior to an extreme that generally does not exist.

X said people on the extreme side who practice fetishism may experience depression, sadness, guilt or emptiness in missing out on daily activities. X said it's relatively infrequent for people who practice fetishism to seek counseling due to the extreme satisfaction that arises from the fetish.

While there is treatment that exists, the success rate is not overwhelming, in fact significantly low and mostly temporary at best. "What we know about fetishism is from people who get into legal trouble. Overall, this is an area where therapeutic success is not the hallmark of the day," It must be noted that most fetish behavior does not occur on the extreme but is generally more balanced and integrated into a persons daily life.

X said many psychology textbooks today categorize fetishism under the category of sexual preferences. The practice may be considered OK if it were mutually accepted.

"X supposes some elements [of fetishism] could be useful in terms of sexual arousal and enjoyment if two individuals find the fetish mutually arousing."

X said it's likely there is an element of fetishism in everyone. "Potentially, any member of our society, male or female, probably has some fantasies to objects," Some women have a shoe shopping fetish and some men have s shoe fetish to match these women. he said.

"Certain kinds of clothing seem appealing, like in the recent very erotic Victoria's Secret ads." Many men, and women, are attracted to these models from head to toe. It is no surprise when designers today aim for a high level of erotic sexuality in their high end work..

Y said a common misconception associated with fetishism that "because it's different, it's wrong." "My bottom line is there's a great deal of diversity in sexual expression," he said. "Even though [fetishism is] not common, as long as it's safe, people should be objective to other people interests."

As for not common, we are not sure about that. Fetish behavior today among men and women is much like gay behavior was a few decades ago, “In The Closet.” Women, for example, joke about shoe fetishes, but what do we really know? Perhaps some women do and some do not cross that sexual line. Men on the other hand say very little about shoes and boots, but it appears more enjoy this fetish than meets the eye. Just look at them when a boot clad woman passes by wearing Jimmy Choo designer knee high black leather 4 inch high heeled pointed toe stiletto boots. We all know what they looking at, women are also looking. I wonder what they are thinking?

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

I AM ONE OF THE WORLDS MOST OPEN, EXPLICIT, AND PROLIFIC SHOE FETISH WRITERS.

A NOTE ON SHOE FETISH & BOOT FETISH PSYCHOLOGICAL RESEARCH

I have a solid background in Psych and some history as a PsyD – the reason I am writing today is if you look up in Google research shoe fetish you get and extensive result that includes papers that read as if the researchers have little clue about the real world and day to day sex lives of the people they write about. I am convinced that many so called fetishists that are in these articles, with the exception of those that exclude all other social contact, are overstated, exaggerated, and defy the test of reality.

As for shoe fetishes – so what, does anyone really care, or is anyone who has discussed their fetish with their partner hurt by these passions? Every hooker can tell you about boot men that come to them because their wives won’t tolerate the fetish. This is quite frankly absurd because far too many relationships are devastated that do not need to be because of one simple golden rule – tell your partner about your passions, early, explicitly, and in a way that they can accept and are not surprised. They can accept or move on. Believe me if you have a fetish it won’t go away no matter which of those researchers talk with you. It is like being gay, it is hard wired.

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Monday, December 21, 2009

I am one of the worlds most open, explicit, and prolific SHOE FETISH WRITERS.

I AM ONE OF THE MOST OPEN AND PROLIFIC SHOE FETISH WRITERS.


A NOTE ON SHOE FETISH & BOOT FETISH PSYCHOLOGICAL RESEARCH

I have a solid background in Psych and some history in going for a PsyD – the reason I am writing today is if you look up in Google research shoe fetish you get an extensive result that includes papers that read as if the researchers have little clue about the real world and the day to day sex lives of the people they write about. I am convinced that many so called fetishists that are in these articles, with the exception of those that exclude all other social contact, are overstated, exaggerated, and defy the test of reality and the statements used by narrow researchers are interesting at best but mostly lack the test of reality.   I have been in contact over theyears iwth perhaps hundreds of shoe fetishists both male and some female - it does not look like the articles in many research reports written by doctoral candidates with limited life experiences. 

As for shoe fetishes – so what, does anyone who does not have one really care?  If they do, why?   Is anyone who has discussed their fetish with their partner who accepts their passion hurt by these same passions?

Every hooker can tell you about foot and boot men that come to them because their wives narrow perceptions of sexuality won’t tolerate their preferences.  A fascination with breasts and rear ends is OK but a passion for lower legs, feet and shoes is not, really?  Why?  This is quite frankly absurd that far too many relationships are devastated that do not need to be because a partner enjoys a less popular body part or gets excited by an erotic pair of shoes or boots. 

There is hope -- one simple golden rule might end the catastrophe – tell your partner about your passions, early, clearly, explicitly, and in a way that they can accept and are not surprised later when you slide your member into a shoe and they catch you.  Most partners with an open mind can accept things they know about and can understand, or they can choose to move on. 

One simple truth exists, if are the one with the fetish they need to know because it won’t go away no matter which of those researchers try to talk with you and tell you it will. It is like being gay, it is hard wired.  the first time you walk into your partners closet and there is an erotic pair of very sexy Jimmy Choo knee high heeled zippered boots sitting there your member will become erect and remind you it is hard wired and you can't stop your passion and attraction, it is really only in a limited way controlable.  However, it is more fun when you build it in to a relaitonship with a partner rather than trying to just do the shoe.

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For much more and written much more explicitly see my SHOE FETISH and BOOT FETISH NEWSGROUP

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the shoe fetish male is always and only by secret and a loners --- poppycock !!!

the shoe fetish male is always and only by secret and a loners --- poppycock !!!

FALSE STATEMENT ABOUT SHOE FETISHES; Someone once said shoe fetishists are always alone? Really, – SOME ARE because they are socially lacking. Most of us with any social skills and a sharing brain are not !!! – We know how to share and provide for a partners needs, first so a real relationship does exist. I have been with my partner with my fetish in the open for what seems to be more than four score and seven years. …. OK, over 30 years. We play together and stay together.

SHOE FETISH & BOOT FETISH NEWSGROUP

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The Shoe fetish and Boot fetish newsgroup is a place to bring your shoe fetish passion, discussions, and stories out of the closet and into the light of day --- Thank you so much for your shared interest, and for some, your curiosity about shoe and boot fetishes. Statistics have it that there are +/-375,000 male shoe and boot fetishists in the U.S.A. alone. That does not count women or the rest of the world population. That number of people in the U.S.A. alone makes having a shoe fetish newsgroup an important place for many, most of which are still, as they say, still "in the closet", to share stories and discussions in a world where having a shoe fetish continues to have the stigma that the gay lesbian community once had long ago. It is time for those with a shoe/boot fetish to accept their passion and preferences, and then ignore what the clearly jealous and undersexed world thinks, and get “out of the closet”.

This is only an issue if you make it one

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Friday, December 18, 2009

A Worthy Shoe Fetish Decision ; Old Boyfriend vs Old Shoes Study (for Women)

A Worthy Shoe Fetish Decision ; Old Boyfriend vs Old Shoes Study (for Women) A case for women choosing the wrong boyfriend and not understanding their passion. 


December 16, 2009 • COMPIMENTS OF SHOE MARKET ONLINE

We were tipped off to this study by tszuji.co.uk from The Cut at NY Mag. Some of the surprising number might catch you off guard: “Women are more likely to remember the first pair of shoes they bought than who they shared their first kiss with.” Wait, what? Really? “In a poll of 1,000 women, 92 % remembered the first pair of shoes they bought with their own money, but less than two in three could remember the name of the first person they kissed.”Something about shoes sticks hard on the brain. . .(Shoe Fetish ???)

“While 96 % felt remorse for throwing away a pair of shoes, only 15 percent felt bad about dumping a boyfriend.” Are we just too materialistic? Glendon Lloyd, director of website tszuji.co.uk, which commissioned the survey, said: “These results show that women are even more attached to their footwear than previously thought.” .

“Women treat shoes like best friends. And it seems their footwear memories last longer than those of their past lovers.” Still undecided if this is a bad thing or not. . . decide for yourself and tell us how you feel about these hard facts on women and their shoes.

A NOTE from “e” elliott ----- (It is my opinion at the shoe fetish group and blog that

Shoe Fetish Women exist ??? They just did not have the anatomy to experiment when they were in puberty like their male counterpart. With a shoe fetish male counterpart that can appreciate their joy of shoes they could learn and enjoy so much including a more intense relationship. I met one of those shoe shopping women and am living proof it is real. )

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Monday, December 14, 2009

Shoe fetish --- Shoe shopping fetish? Really?

Shoe shopping fetish? Really?


We all love shoes, right? And sure, sometimes some of us joke about having shoe fetishes because we love shopping for them, but often that phrase is used for exaggeration. Or is it? Perhaps it is just a novice who may be on the way to more exotic pleasures and an enhanced sex life? Consider this, These shoe shopping ladies will probably attract the foot and shoe attracted male. No, it’s true, many who use the term shoe shopping fetish will never cross the line, they don’t even know there is a line to cross. However, for those who have learned the power of their sexuality and shoes there is a male counterpart on the other side that will make them the center of the universe. Ladies really, many of us are attracted and find erotic so much more than bra size.

Today, let’s give a thought to actual fetish footwear.

Although I find that many who scoff at designer shoes do so simply because they can’t afford them. For example a nice pair of Jimmy Choo or Alexander McQueen shoes can cost over $1,000 per pair. Regardless, those who find high quality designer shoes and fetish shoes to be fascinating will find a way to get them even if it means buying them used. Each pair like a work of art.

The shapes and curves of well designed shoes in many cases can be so erotic and enticing they are clearly so different from day-to-day footwear. Just look at them purely for their shapes and what they do for your feet. I drool over a beautiful woman with her feet inside erotic shoes. The shapes that fetish shoes make (especially those in the fetish footwear category high design), many are so beautiful to me. They’re like two sculptures making the wearer into goddesses.

I think the argument can be made that 2” & 3” high heel shoes are a subtler and more pervasive manifestation of shoe fetishization. I mean, they’re intended to keep the wearer from walking normally and put him/her slightly off balance. The new 4” & 5” heeled designer Fetish shoes are about the same purpose, just taken to a higher level. Not to mention the fact that women buying fetish shoes implies a mutual consent between wearer and perhaps a true fetish leaning observer that buying and wearing mass-market fashion heels does give permission to have the observers heart skip a beat.

Footwear subculture... is very very interesting.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

I found a real shoe fetish girl Tonya J.

I found a real shoe fetish girl Tonya J.

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I found a real shoe fetish girl Tonya J.

This is a True Story: copyright©1996 and 2009

I can't believe it happened, today September 30, 1996 at about noon.

Being a shoe fetishist it is very hard to find a female who is into shoes. In fact it is so hard it hadn't ever happened to me before. (It has many times since now that I am better at making it fun for both of us)

Well, I decided to go out and find my self a street walker with a nice pair of shoes on and then I would hire her to play with me with her feet, and even screw me with her shoes.

So I am driving in an area where I usually look for girls in the daytime and none are out but I drive a little farther up the road and there is this whole bunch of people hanging out in the street. This really nice looking girl waves at me.

But because she is with so many people, men and women. I decided it might not be safe to pay any attention to this. Even so she was in her white socks with no shoes on,,, but she was very cute, not beautiful, and had nice legs. So I passed by a couple of times, she just waved and seemed to want to be picked up but the group was to intimidating for me to stop. So I kept driving around. I pulled down a street and stopped the car and I thought well maybe if she figures out I am interested and walks over, I'll give it a try.

She was interested and walked over separating her from the group. We talked a bit and I could tell that she was not very experienced at this because neither of us could get to the point. Then she asked me
what it is that I do, I told her I love to play with feet and shoes.

She said, huh,,,, what do you mean... I said I like to have women rub their feet and shoes over my mid section and turn me on. She said ok I can do that. As she got into the car and we drove out of the area.

I had a few pairs of shoes with and asked her if she would wear a pair for me. She said that she would. I had a very well broken in pair of 8 ½ Red open toed Bruno Magli 3 inch heels. She was a size 7 1/2 and
these were a bit big on her,,, but she wore them anyway. I asked her to put her feet on my lap and rub me through my pants .... she did just that.

Things were getting warmer and I noticed that she had lifted her blouse and appeared excited and was rubbing her nipples. I asked her if she was getting excited and she said that she hadn't been out in a
long time and usually didn't do tricks and she lived with 2 other women and just needed the money.

I guess watching me get excited in a way she was unfamiliar with was exciting for her. I asked if I could touch her pants and she said yes. I decided well why not try to turn her on while I am getting
turned on. So I rubbed her clitoris through her panties and she was responding to my touch and appeared to get a bit excited. She said her lips were getting large.

I then asked her if she wanted to try an experiment and see if she enjoyed the shoes as much as I did. I asked her to sit and then lean back in the seat. She did, I gently took off one of the red high heel
kidskin shoes on her feet and I told her I would just gently rub her through the pants. She said that was ok. I slid the shoe over my hand and glided it onto her mid section and rubbed the shoe on her pants over her clitoris.

What she did next was unbelievable to me. She took the shoe and was rubbing it on her breasts with her breasts touching the inside of the shoe. I asked her if she wanted to try it with her pants lowered.
She immediately dropped her pants and I gently reached over and took off the other red high heel and I had some KY gel I placed it on the tip then touched her clitoris with the tip of the soft kidskin
leather on my hand. She soon placed her hand over mine and moved the shoe over her even harder so that the whole toe box was touching her vagina and clitoris. I couldn't believe it this girl was getting off on women’s shoes and was doing one.

At that point I asked her to smell the shoe she was rubbing on her breast … She then kissed the inner sole of the high heel shoe... I was almost out of my mind with surprise,, and she did it with ease... In fact she began to kiss the shoe on both the inside and the outside as well and seemed to be really getting excited about it. At that point I was in shock as her body responded to my hand pulsing over her
vagina and clitoris and I think she actually had an orgasm and was so passionate it appeared she had just made love to her first shoe.

On the way back dropping her off, I expressed my surprise. What she told me next was interesting, she said that she had to women roommates and they were her sex partners. She said that she was always
excited by seeing them in erotic sexy shoes but never even considered what I had just done to her and that she was going to go back and try it on her roommates.

For me that was an unbelievable moment that may have changed my life. But the bad side is that its just my luck... I finally find one who is interested and can enjoy high heels and my passion for shoes and she turns out to like men but was not really interested in men. Go figure... I guess the good side is that if she had not been a lesbian I could have fallen for her, big time. The good news is she will always be on my mind but I won't destroy my life over this passionate moment either.

But what a moment, I hope to see her again,,, but on the street you never know when that will occur or how long they will live there. But whatever, it was a blast and a full surprise that has taken many, many years to find.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

CASE #17 SHOE FETISH & BOOT FETISH and some ASPHYXIA FETISH

CASE #17 SHOE FETISH & BOOT FETISH and some ASPHYXIA FETISH

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I was sitting at home when a very expensive prostitute I had hired arrived for a visit. Having hired her before and knowing her well I already knew that this was a free spirited woman where I could expect
her to say, do, and try almost anything. She was very experienced with my shoe fetish, knew what shoes and boots to wear, and played it up very well. She always brought several pairs with her for our visits.

She's was exotic, erotic, sexy, and wow, very, very hot with her long blond hair covering her shoulders, she looked almost as if she just walked off of the cover of a Vogue magazine. To say the least, this
was certainly a distracting woman. This is the kind of woman you just dream about but never meet. A perfect body covered in a tight black dress that touched just above her knees. On her legs I couldn't help
but notice she was wearing the sexiest and hottest pair of Italian designer high heeled kid skin knee high black leather fashion boots I had ever seen with finger loops at the top for pulling the boots onto
her legs. From the start of my two hour session it seemed that she made up her mind that she was going to have some fun with my fetish.

She looked at me and said, "So you like my boots." As she caught me staring at perhaps the best pair of well broken in black leather high heel boots I had ever seen.

I answered with a lie, playing with her, “I don't now, I just was looking at them, there very interesting”.

She says, "I don't believe you",,,,,these boots are not interesting their stunning and you know it." "Man or woman, when I dress in black and wear this pair of high heeled black leather fashion boots you would have to be dead if you didn't stare at them. I know the power of these boots and I know that in black with my makeup on I am attractive enough that almost anyone sexually alive would have a hard time controlling themselves." You wouldn't be surprised to know that I am propositioned by men almost every day. But I'll bet you would be even more surprised to find out that I have also been propositioned and hired regularly by many women.

There was no doubt that she is one of those women who both male and female would find so stunning that they couldn't resist her sexual aura and they would want her.

At that point she put her leg forward and said, "Curious, go ahead and take a look at them, touch them if you want", she said, as she sat in a chair across from me.

I was hesitant, but as I looked I couldn't resist she was just to hot I did exactly what she said. As I touched the leather my body went on fire it was a great way to be able to touch her. Even through the
leather. (She knew she was getting me going). I just hoped to get more.

Playing with me she rubbed her other leg along my pants. The leather was so soft and smelled so good that my member went directly to attention. I knew she saw it because she then placed her leg in my
lap with the toe of the boot close to my face and the other just touching my erection. She told me to kiss it.

Once again I hesitated, but she gently rubbed my member and it felt so erotic that I had to do as she said. I couldn't resist it, as I held her boot and kissed it, slowly at first and then with great passion as
she continued to rub my erection. I could feel her well formed foot and toes inside of the boot with my tongue.

After a while she slowly had me slide the erotic boot off of her leg while I kissed the outside of the toe area of her boot. She would not allow me to stop kissing her booted leg. She said if I couldn't do
this that I would never get anything else. So I did as she asked.

She then told me to, "look inside my boot" as she moved the boot toward me. She said, “I was so sweaty, please tell me if my boots smell ok. I just need to know”. She held my head with one hand and gently moved the boot toward my face with the opening of the boot nearing my nose.

“Look down it, can you see where my feet go down inside toward the toe. Look down inside the boots. It's a wonderful flesh tone the same as my skin.”

I had to admit, I have always wanted to get my hands on a pair of hot fashion boots. There has always been a fascination for hot leather boots on beautiful women, and now I was about to get to play with both.

She then said, lower your head and put your nose and mouth inside of the opening of my boot and smell my aroma." Does it smell ok. It was so erotic I wanted to do it, but I told her I couldn't. It was so strange to be smelling this woman’s boot.

She then put her other boot covered foot in my lap and it got my attention. She told me to try it, look closer, you'll be surprised. Do you smell the erotic leather of my boot mixed with my body. At that point she took a pair of black panty hose from her bag and slipped one of the toes through each loop on the top of the boot. Pulled the hose through making a loop.

With her help, I did and it was very erotic and kinky. I wanted more but I was a bit embarrassed, this was all so strange to me. But I already knew I loved being with her and I wanted this exotic woman and I would give it a try if it helped me to get her. I also knew that I loved what she was doing to me with her boots. This was the most attractive woman that had ever come close to me and I wasn't about to say no.

So I slowly looked inside the boot. She then told me to "look closer" ,,, "can't you see down deep where my toes go, look closer. Place the opening of the boot closer to your face." "Put your nose and mouth down inside of it, pull it up over your face along the sides of your head, get into it, place it closer. Pull the boot over your nose and mouth and breath in the aroma."

It was weird but the boot was so sexy that I could not resist I slid the panty hose in the loops over my head and slid the boot over my nose and mouth as my lips touched and caressed the soft inner flesh
toned leather and I breathed in that exotic smell. When I did this it was her mixed with the smell of top quality leather. The top of a thigh high boot is fairly wide and my face easily fit inside of the leather and I could feel the gentle soft leather wrapped around the sides of my face over my head and down under my chin.

She told me to "hold them tight and that I must make love and kiss the inside of the boot and let the boot inhale and exhale up and down with each breath. You'll just love it when the air turns warm and mixes with the smell of my body. It’ll make you get so hot that you can't help but get excited and loose control.”

Then she sat behind me and wrapped her legs around my body with her foot and other booted leg gently stroking my hardened member. She pulled on the legs of the hose which tightened the boot with my head inside loose but yet firmly over my face. She moved my hands from holding the boot and gently held the boot over my face as she continued to rub her booted soft leather against my penis. I knew I
was about ready to explode. She stopped just short of my exploding. As I relaxed, she says, I can tell you love my boots. I think I am going to make you explode with my booted foot, would that be OK.

I agreed as I tried to move my head out of the inside of her boot. She said, oh no bad boy, I didn't tell you could come out. Your a bad boy, you must put your face back inside of my boot. For that I am
going to prepare to tie the boot tighter over your face to hold it firmly inside so you can’t disobey me.

I knew that I couldn't resist. She gently removed the boot and slid my face out of the boot for a moment and gave me the deepest and longest of kisses. All I could respond was, do whatever you want.

But than she said, first you must kiss the other boot.

While I was kissing her very exciting boot I watched her prepare the other one to tie over my face. Later I noticed that she had laced her nylon as well as a few very long heavy shoe laces through firmly
stiched little holes that seemed to be previously punched but unnoticeable through near the top portion of the boot.

You couldn't see the holes until she laced them. The holes were just below a very strong seam in the top of the boot that the leather would not tear from them being tied tightly over my head. What I didn't
think about at the time was that they might not be easy to take off if they were tied on to my face. There were a few things that I had not considered at that point. However, I am here to write this so things must have worked out OK.

I was very erect and horny from kissing her other boot. This time she helped me place my face and part of my head right back inside that thigh high kid skin leather well worn high heeled black leather very
erotic boot. It was so exciting and kinky, I was having a lot of fun. Then she put my head back into the boot and tightened the nylons from the boot to the back of my head and tied them very tight so the
boot could not fall off. She did it by tying the nylon through the leather in the loops. Then from behind me she tightened the laces that went over my forehead and at spots around my face to keep the
boot in place. She then tied the last one from below my chin to the back of my neck to keep the bottom from opening up as well.

What I realized was that this would not be easy to pull off if I needed to, it was clearly firmly in place. Once tightened against the sides of my face and under my chin it made a great seal. But it was
so exciting I figured so what, this is fun. As she wrapped her legs around me again with her boot sitting right on top of my penis she tightened the last item, the nylons that went through the loops. They
were still loose enough so that I could breath outside air.

She told me make love to the inside of the boot, the leather, the smell, its me she said. Don't you just love it as you breathe in and out inside of the boot. You can feel it as the boot expands and contracts with every breath. You can smell my feet and legs and I know you love.

I did, and the boots were tall enough that they held a lot of air. What I quickly noticed was that there was no additional fresh air getting into the boot and that as my excitement was growing so was my breathing getting deeper from the lack of oxygen as the excitement was mounting. She kept rubbing me with my penis between her booted foot and bare foot. Firmly in rhythm up and down over my erect penis. As
my body began to move with the rhythm I just knew that I was going to make love to the boots and I was about to explode and even though I was almost out of air, I didn’t try to take the boots off my face either.

As I passionately kissed the inside lining of the boot I was becoming slightly dizzy and about to pass out I thought it was because my body began to explode continuously onto her boot and foot that was rubbing
my penis. It was one of the best orgasm I had ever had. At that point I had no strength left and was too dizzy to pull the boot off my face. I must have passed out from lack of oxygen. At that point I had to trust her, she had to decide what to do next. Thinking about it later, I realized what if she didn’t remove the boot?

URGENT NOTE: One must remember that asphyxia is not a common trend of shoe fetishists and is, and can be, very dangerous to try. Clearly passing out inside of a boot in this manner can cost a lot more than an evening. It can risk your life. This is very dangerous stuff and I am clearly advising everyone this should not be played with lightly. I have heard of people putting intoxicating vapor materials inside of a boot to get them high while tying as boot over their face. This combination of vapors and lack of oxygen could lead to a heart attack and could become a very deadly combination causing brain
damage. I will be including a number of cases as received for your review. However additional commentary at this time may not be included.

CASE #11 JULIE & LISA -- SHOE FETISH “2”

CASE #11 JULIE & LISA -- SHOE FETISH “2”




This story came to me in just that, story format. I left it as such because whether it was real or a fantasy, written by a female or a male, it gave a very clear perception of what this person was thinking about enough to write it. I consider this an open door into the mind of fetish and perhaps even a touch of lesbian seduction and behavior. If it was written by a female it show the devious behavior of forbidden seduction. If it was written by a male, it shows the perception and wishful thinking of the behavior of a lesbian seduction and encounter. For some reason, not researched in this book, many men seem to enjoy lesbian fantasy and behavior. I found the story real or fantasy to provide an interesting insight as well as into the shoe fetishists mind.



Outside of her best friend Julie, I can't even tell you how much I just love buying new high fashion designer shoes. They are just so hot. I would stay up at night and think about all of the ways I could wear them and just how the particular design of the day excites me. I just couldn’t wait to wear them the next day. Those little spike heels and that soft sensuous leather was so cool and my kind of shoes are almost always worn by fantastically beautiful feet. It just isn’t very common to see unattractive women wearing hot sexy shoes. How did it all start. Well let’s start from the beginning when I went to visit my married friend Julie.



Julie's thought's were interrupted, the door bell rings and it's her friend Lisa. Lisa is her best friend and a super attractive single woman. Always dressed in the most wonderful fashions. She only bought the best for herself from her head to her open toed taupe shoes on her feet. Lisa is very strong willed and very sexually open minded. The one thing I can say is as our life changed through the years of knowing each other she has always adapted. Tonight Lisa was claiming that she was bisexual and enjoyed sex in a variety of ways, oh well, maybe she does.



Well Lisa started talking about her sex life with Julie while her husband Jim was working 4 nights a week and was out of the house most of the time. The stories Lisa told Julie could knock your socks off.



They are good enough friends that Lisa could tell her anything. Well the stories kept on getting sexier and sexier. Lisa was describing to Julie some of the sessions where her passion for shoes got the better of her. As you might expect not an easy thing to do.



Lisa asked Julie if she ever tried it and she shivered with disgust and said no. Lisa said, 'don't knock it until you have tried it, you may be surprised, that's how I felt at first'. Then she went on to talk about some of her sessions of masturbation asking, 'have you ever tried it'. Julie answered, 'no I never needed to'.



'Let me tell you it's great', Lisa added, ' I know you won't mess around on your husband, but this is not cheating, if you keep it simple, the only thing that touches you is leather'. Then she added, 'I know you buy those wonderful leather shoes that cost you an arm and a leg, just like I do, and I know that you are fascinated by them? I'll bet your husband likes them too? What do you think he is doing with them?



Anyway, why do you buy them?'



Julie answered, 'I always thought they were so much more sexy and very erotic and they look and feel great on my feet'.

Lisa commented, 'You don't really think they made those sexy shoes for comfort do you? They spent years developing them so they would turn you on. I have been turning men on to orgasm for years, and everyone of them loves it !!!



Don't you want to know why?



At that point they had both had a couple of drinks and were feeling a little loose. Then Lisa started to describe how she did it. 'First you take a relaxing bath, you put on your sexiest lingerie. Then you pull out 3 or 4 of your sexiest shoes of the softest leather. Make sure they are high heels or erotic sex boots and very soft. Don’t pull out any of those lace or strap sandals, soft leather gently pointed shoes work the best. Put your sexiest pair on and put the rest close by where you can see them.



Then have a drink or two and lay down on your bed and relax.



When your all alone gently glide your hands over your sensuous body. You are at peace with the world. As you relax slowly begin to touch your clitoris, gently playing with it while you slowly become more aroused. Lisa added, now while you are getting aroused and wishing someone would come along and screw you as you get hornier and hornier and your juices begin to flow. Take a good look at the shoes on your feet and around you, that soft sensuous leather caressing your ivory toes, notice your toes firm but deliberate movements beneath the leather. You can see each little movement of your toes inside the shoe, let your foot remind you of a penis surrounded by an erotic leather vagina. Look again at the movement of the foot in that sexy shoe. It is like a penis moving in and out of your vagina. Soon your body is getting so excited that you see that soft sensuous shoe as a firm and solid penis, oh so ready to fuck the hell out of you. Lisa added. You begin to want it you can't resist the erotic fantasy and its effects.

Lisa sat down to do some reading while Julie went to take a bath to get ready for her husband who wouldn’t be home for hours. Well I guess Lisa really had her thinking. When Julie closed the door to her room and started her bath water she took out 3 or 4 pairs of her sexiest shoes and lingerie. Julie said to herself, 'well after all masturbating is not cheating on your husband and it has been a long time and I am very horny.



Well, Julie was feeling a little high after a couple of drinks. She decided to lay down on the bed after taking that wonderful hot oiled bath.



It felt so great.



Julie then thought about what Lisa said about the shoes and decided to put a pair on while laying down. She thought about what Lisa had said about her foot entering the shoe, with its toes gently gliding toward the tip and the toe of the inner shoe and the sole of her foot gently caressing the inner sole of the well broken in shoe. She then saw it as a penis entering a vagina and slowly pulsing in and out, in and out with the movement of her toes.



Julie was surprised that she was starting to become aroused by the erotic thoughts. It was kind of fun.



On her feet were a pair of designer high heeled shoes, made out of the finest soft leather. They looked just like what a sensuous model would wear in a magazine. A beautiful pair of high heels with fantastic trim, and soft pointed toes with gentle thin creases in the leather caressing over Julie's arched instep.



Julie agreed, the outline of her toes pulsing in the wonderful shoe was very erotic and exciting.



Then Lisa called to Julie, 'are you finished with your bath yet.



Julie answered, 'yes, I'll be done in a minute.



Lisa entered Julie's room and saw Julie laying on the bed, her fantastic body covered with tremendous lingerie. Her hair and make up looking radiant. She noticed Julie's nipples were firm and erect, Julie was definitely aroused. Then Julie moved her legs and Lisa was able to see the most fantastic pair of high heels she had seen in a long time. Lisa was definitely impressed.



Julie said, Do you like my high heels. I'm so surprised that I find them so much more exciting than I ever have.



Lisa was a bit awkward, she didn't quite know how to respond. So she decided to respond with the truth. They are fantastic, where did you find them. They are the sexiest pair I have ever seen.



Then Julie added, tell me what do I do with them now. I did get very excited until you walked in, but I guess I can't figure out what you might do with them next.



'Julie they are very soft and very sensuous, may I see one of them,' asked Lisa. As she reached out to touch the shoe on one of Julie's feet.



'The shoes are so exciting,' Julie added, 'I love touching them, they are so erotic.'



Lisa sat on the side of the bed and touched one of Julie's high heeled shoes again as Julie shivered with excitement at the touch, you could see the goose bumps on her smooth legs. Lisa slowly took the shoe off of Julie's sensuous foot and let the aromas of the leather saturate the room as Lisa slowly slid her hand into the inside of the strapped high heel shoe palm side up. The strap held the shoe in place on Lisa's hand and gave the appearance that the shoe was on a dexterous leg.



Lisa then made the decision to touch Julie's sensitive skin with the tip of that fantastic shoe. Lisa slowly and erotically let the shoe touch Julie's skin just above the foot. Then she gently massaged Julie's leg with the soft shoe placed over her hand.



Julie jumped, startled, Lisa responded, 'relax, I'm only trying to show you how to do this.' Lisa added, 'Relax, and take a close look at your other foot with the shoe still on it. I think you just might find the smell fixed to the leather fantastic.' As Lisa slowly and erotically took off Julie's other shoe and handed it to her with the innersole side facing her face so that she could smell the sexual smell of warm worn leather.



Let me put these sexy thigh high heeled black leather zippered boots on you.



As Lisa slid them on Julie you could see they were both getting very excited by the smell look and erotic feel of sensuous shoes.



Lisa said to Julie, 'Think about those fantastic high heeled boots hugging your legs.'



The thoughts were so exciting for Julie she could not help but get aroused even more as the gentle smell of fine leather permeated the room. She was surprised at just how horny she was because to her surprise her juices were really flowing now. All she could think about was how strange this situation was. Julie felt like she was a young woman again at her first encounter and this time she found she was excite din a very strange situation and with shoes all around her.



Lisa began to message Julie's calves with the shoe. Lisa turned to Julie and said, ' I know how to please a woman with shoes, my friend has been doing this to me for years. Julie, just let me teach you how. Next time you will be able to do it for yourself.' Julie didn’t want to stop her as she pushed forward. Julie agreed with the nod of her head, she was to excited not to go on.



With that Lisa moved the sensuous high heel with her hand touching the inner leather of the inside of the shoe, slowly rubbing the soft leather on the excited peaks of Julie's breast.



Julie began to gasp with exhilaration. The soft leather felt great. She knew there was no way she could stop this wonderful activity now that it started. She felt so good, and she didn't even want to.



With that Lisa slowly kneaded Julie's breasts with her hand inside of the soft toe leather of the shoe. Lisa told Julie, 'Put the high heel that you are holding closer to your face, look at the soft wear lines your foot has made in the leather. Can't you picture your toes pulsing on the inner leather, can't you just sense the intercourse going on of your foot having sex with your shoe. Feel and enjoy the aroma of the fabulous shoe, it's just like sex.' Let my words sink in and let the fantasy flow.



With that you could see that Julie was enjoying the erotic pleasure she was feeling. Just then, Lisa stopped rubbing Julie's leg and slowly touched the soft leather of the high heel along the soft skin of her stomach, just gently touching until she had glided the shoe until it was just about on top of the pubic hairs on her vagina. Here Lisa played for just a moment with those soft pubic hairs. The soft high heel toe leather gliding over the smooth hair, and touching ever so softly her inner thighs.



Lisa then slid her hand out of the shoe, and slowly placed some KY Jelly on the tip of the shoe then touched Julie's pubic hairs oh so softly. Then touching it she slowly moved the lubricated shoe slowly and gently onto Julie's clitoris.



Julie had never orgasmic with anyone else but her husband. But then she thought about how wonderful this was feeling and decided not to stop Lisa. Oh those shoes are so sexy, and this is more like masturbating.



The creased toe of the lubricated erotic high heel was now getting her so excited she could not control her desire for the shoe and she began to move with rhythm of Lisa’s hand.



Then, Lisa turned Julie's head to her and kissed her softly and deeply. Julie was so aroused by the pulsing of the shoe over her clit that she responded to the kiss instantly. Their soft tongues dancing between their mouths. The soft high heel slowly and steadily pumping and gently penetrating Julie's inflamed vagina and over her clitoris.



Lisa's kiss deepened as Julie's excitement was reaching a feverish pitch. It was clear that Lisa had succeeded to seduce Julie away from her husband and she was going to screw the shoe. Julie was beginning to gyrate her hips as the sensuous high heel pumped up and down on her vagina. The bed was beginning to bump and Julie's head was starting to spin with excitement and pleasure as the sensuous shoe slowly penetrated farther each crease of the soft leather excited her as it gently moved over her clit..



Lisa slowly broke her kiss and whispered to Julie, ' See what I mean, this is wonderful.' then she took off her own shoe and put her own high heel over Julie's face with her chin touching the inner heel, her nose touching the inner sole and her eyes able to look at the tip of the beautifully erotic shoes. Now that you understand how much fun this is I want you to make love to my shoe. Lisa told her to make love to the shoe, kiss it lick it love it.



Julie did with passion.



Julie felt like her first orgasm all over again. It was incredible, only this time she was doing her own high heeled sensuous shoes, while making out with Lisa shoe. How wonderful and surprising it was to have a gorgeous woman who was her best friend guide her, and enjoying every minute of it.



Lisa then kissed Julie again, only harder and with more passion this time. Their breasts were touching, each nipple making the others nipple even harder. Lisa continued to do Julie with the soft sensuous shoe rubbing Julie's vagina continuing to excite her enlarged clitoris. Then Lisa kissed Julie again and their tongues clashed in a hot dance of passion and lust, as Lisa continued to penetrate Julie's vagina with the fantastic high heel. Lisa's hand began moving the high heel gently messaging Julie's vagina from inside that tremendously erotic shoe. Lisa could feel the moisture as she began to penetrate the pink inner flesh sprouting from Julie's vagina.



Julie began tried to stop when she actually realized what she was doing.



Lisa pushed her back, Julie could not resist she was overcome by sheer desire and lust. She began to arch upward as the arousal from the shoe was becoming to much for her, it was even better than any sex she had for quite a while.



Lisa then placed the shoe Julie was holding back over her mouth and nose and asked her to kiss it.



Julie was so excited at that point that she began to kiss the inner sole of Lisa’s high heel again with a lust that is hard to explain. She was kissing a beautiful high heeled shoe, she loved that tremendous trim and the delicate stitching and she kissed the broken in thin leather over the arch of the shoe. She felt as if the passion for the shoe had sucked the air right out of her lungs. Then she began to kiss the innersole of the shoe again down to the soft toe enclosure with blind pleasure and erotic lust. She wanted oral sex with the shoe, her tongue would be the penis, and the soft liner of the shoe would be the vagina, the toe area the clitoris she began to see how the shoe could convert to a sex organ.



Julie began to sweat heavily as Lisa screwed the shoe in and out of her vagina more deeply. Julie couldn't help but to passionately kiss the shoe deeper. She kissed the shoe with fantastic pleasure.



The thought of a high heel shoe gently going in and out of Julie with the rhythm of a clock. Julie was beginning to feel the pulsation of another orgasm this one overtaking every inch of her sensuous body.

Julie could not resist she was kissing the toe of the high heel and sucking it in and out of her mouth in rhythm to the one screwing her. She was sucking and kissing it as she had never kissed anyone before.

She could see the outline of where Lisa’s toes had shaped the leather, each crease created by the movement of her toes in the shoes, she was falling in love with Lisa as her orgasm began to take control her supple body, she began to pulsate.



Julie than said, ' I love being fucked by these shoes don't stop,' as Julie arched up and down into the shoe her body continuing to pulse with orgasm. Julie was putting all the inflamed desire she had into pumping the shoes deeper and deeper.



Julie was drawn to the inner surface of the shoe again, she could not pull away, her orgasiming passion had taken control of all of her sexual desire. The more she kissed and her tongue touched the soft leather the harder her orgasm flamed. Julie squeezed Lisa tighter while Lisa determinedly continued to screw her with the high heel. Lisa then began to kiss Julie passionately.



They were falling in love with each other and it was all because of the shoe foreplay. They were actually doing each other with a shoe and loving it more than anything they had ever done. This would have

never occurred if Lisa just tried to straight out seduce Julie. However, after word the flames of passion were so high they could do nothing but passionately kiss and fondle each other. Their juices were running all over their bodies and onto the high heeled boots and shoes.



At that point Lisa had rested a while and she showed Julie the shoes she was now wearing. They were red Maude Frizon high heeled leather shoes with delicate black and metallic red trim. Julie was overcome with more passion as Lisa described how she had bought them in Paris and they were worn by a vibrant and exotic fashion model.



Julie was surprised and asked, ' Why did you do that.'



Lisa responded, 'Julie, kiss my feet.'



Julie responded, 'No way,' then looked and saw the toes sensuously touching the inside of the red shoes. Julie then said, Your feet are so erotic in those shoes.'



'Now you know why I have always been interested in other women's shoes, they are so exciting.' Lisa added.

Then driven by extreme desire, Julie touched Lisa's erotic red high heels on her feet. Driven by lust she began to kiss the shoes, nibbling and kissing Lisa's foot. Julie could not resist Lisa's shoes even though her feet were still inside her shoes. Once again the flames began to rise as she could not resist kissing Lisa’s shoes with her feet inside. It was definitely the beginning of an intense new awakening and a new level to their friendship.



Julie slowly slid one of the shoes off of Lisa's foot and began to nibble at her foot. Seeing her foot as the erotic organ that made the creases in the soft leather of the high heeled shoe. She then kissed the interior of the shoe with more heightened lust and passion, as Julie moved the shoe up her thigh toward Lisa's clitoris. Julie knew what she wanted to do and she proceeded to do it. She began to suck on Lisa's toes as if they were a penis. They were already in a sixty- nine position.



As Julie reached Lisa's clitoris with the shoe she realized that the shape of the shoe fit perfectly if she placed it around the back from Julie's rear end. she had the tip the high heel shoe touching just below the tip of Lisa's clitoris. Julie then started to kiss the tip of the shoe while it moved against Lisa's clitoris and vagina. Julie's tongue lightly touching Lisa's hot button of desire. The high heeled shoe gently touching and bouncing in and out of Lisa's vagina as Julie was able to kiss the tip.



As Lisa began to hump the shoe and Julie's oral sex became more passionate. Lisa reached for Julie's foot and started kissing that fantastic fashion boot she was wearing. She slowly unzipped the boot and slid it off of Julie's foot and before you knew it Lisa was also giving Julie oral sex with the sensuous boot toe touching Julie's vagina.



They both began to orgasm together this time with an uncontrollable passion as they kissed and screwed each other using each others sensual high heeled shoes and boots as their dildo. They both gave in to the desire and passion of the shoes, arching and bouncing to the rhythm of constant orgasm. They were both hopelessly in love with their new found shared erotic pleasure.



As they were both cooling down they continued to fondle and kiss each. They both agreed that that was a very kinky encounter but shoes were by far the most exciting addition to having sex they had ever found and with their passion for buying them they took on a whole new meaning. It definitely was equal to and in some ways superior to intercourse, the shoes stayed hard and kept going again and again as a great dildo when most men's penis's gave out, and they both knew what would turn each other on.



As they both got dressed, they agreed this would have to go on and that they couldn't wait to do this again. They both told each other how they loved each other for this shared experience. They both got dressed, and then Lisa gave Julie a very deep kiss good bye at the door.



Within about four months I was told that Julie and Lisa were now living together and that Julie had left her husband to be with Julie. They also noted that Julie had told Lisa she had always had an interest in trying a lesbian encounter but never had the courage to mention it. She never even considered that Lisa, her good friend, would turn out to be her perfect size and fit.